I know what it feels like to stare at a hot girl and wish I know what it's like being frustrated and angry, calling an Asian girl 'traitor' cause she is dating a white guy. I want to help you, because I've been where you have been, I walked the walk. Look, friend and brother, if you - a dorky Asian dude, want to get good, better, with women, then you need to begin changing your mindset.So many Asian guys are going to read that and be crushed. I've read online somewhere that an internet dating survey showed Asian men to be the least desirable partners on dating sites. Women are attracted to confidence and that may be the number one reason why Asian men dating white women isn't common. Then you're ahead of most Asian guys.
Can you hold a polite conversation with a girl in the grocery store line without stuttering? Heck, you might go as far as saying Asian guys are wusses by Western standards. As an Asian American man, I know exactly what the problem is: Asian guys are shy, sometimes painfully so. These guys have no problem dating women of other races.
I also met some Asian American guys who racked up 99% of the notches for Asian men dating other women. I have travelled in the most of the world and one thing I discovered is that Asian American men have much more severe hang ups over interracial relationships than they do in Europe, where I met many Asian guys in interracial relationships.
